JAII SPEAKS FROM THE HEART

eatcleanmakechanges: one month down…. Full throttle; full force...

Fri, 05 Apr 2013 12:12:54 -0400

eatcleanmakechanges:

one month down….
Full throttle; full force = new me

Breakfast. Banana, strawberries, toast, bacon & apple juice.

Fri, 05 Apr 2013 12:09:32 -0400

Breakfast. Banana, strawberries, toast, bacon & apple juice.

Starting lineup!!!

Fri, 04 Jan 2013 08:48:25 -0500

If it don’t make dollars, then it don’t make sense. So if you not up, out and making money you definitely aren’t in my starting lineup or on my team.

Influential water

Tue, 25 Dec 2012 18:57:56 -0500

Let your past not define your life. It is only a hurdle, speed bump or delay to your future.

Water does not let mountains, rocks, or anything deter it from forging the path it wants.

Forge ahead as waters strength. Not letting anything or anyone stop you, deter you or cause you to be unsure of your goals.

BLACK TUMBLR UNITE!

Fri, 14 Dec 2012 21:29:42 -0500

blackbarbidoll:

blackisbeautiful25:

I had a friend who said there were no black people on tumblr.

Reblog this post so we can find each other, follow each other and create a network of black tumblrians!

lmfao !

daintyblackpegasus: kaelahbee: somepretty-things: How can you...

Sat, 03 Nov 2012 23:02:36 -0400

daintyblackpegasus:

kaelahbee:

somepretty-things:

How can you tell when you are in a room, restroom, motel etc. with a mirror or a 2-way glass?

Here’s how: I thought it was quite interesting! And I know in about 30 seconds you’re going to do what I did and find the nearest mirror.

Do you know how to determine if a mirror is 2-way or not? A policewoman who travels all over the US and gives seminars and techniques for businesswomen passed this on…
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When we visit toilets, bathrooms, hotel rooms, changing rooms, etc., how many of you know for sure that the seemingly ordinary mirror hanging on the wall is a real mirror, or actually a 2-way mirror (i.e., they can see you, but you can’t see them)? There have been many cases of people installing 2-way mirrors in female changing rooms . It is very difficult to positively identify the surface by looking at it.

So, how do we determine with any amount of certainty what type of mirror we are looking at?

TWO WAY GLASS IMAGE MIRROR IMAGE

Just conduct this simple test: Place the tip of your fingernail against the reflective surface and if there is a GAP between your fingernail and the image of the nail, then it is GENUINE mirror. However, if your fingernail DIRECTLY TOUCHES the image of your nail, then BEWARE! IT IS A 2-WAY MIRROR!

“No Space, Leave the Place” So remember, every time you see a mirror, do the “fingernail test.” It doesn’t cost you anything.

REMEMBER. No Space, Leave the Place:

~~Ladies: Share this with your girlfriends, sisters, daughters, etc.~~

~~Men: Share this with your wives, daughters, daughters-in-law, mothers, girlfriends and/or friends.~~

Share this shit with EVERYONE.

Hmmm interesting

Not an Option!

Wed, 24 Oct 2012 20:09:16 -0400

To stand in the face of advisory.
To move against the grains of life. Falling is not an option.
To open the gates of my heart.
To hope to be appreciated at all.
Love is never an option.
Failing once is a lesson learned.
Closed is the door to my heart.
Access is not an option.
The past will not surface.
The present is only for a short while.
The future is inevitable.
But we are not an option.

Now Leasing!!! One Life

Tue, 16 Oct 2012 02:55:00 -0400

People that talk behind your back are scared to say it directly too your face. Scared that insecurities that they feel about themselves will ring true within the eyes of the person they have spoken of. Instead of “If you can’t say nothing nice, don’t say nothing at all.” The phrase should go “If you can’t say it to my face then don’t let it come out of your mouth.” My new lease on life is if I’m not important enough for you then your not even worthy of my thoughts. Have a beautiful evening, morning, day.

Tried and failed. New month= new beginnings. team single on your...

Mon, 03 Sep 2012 04:22:10 -0400

Tried and failed. New month= new beginnings. team single on your mark, get ready cuz here I come. (permanently). Try a new outlook.

I just wish this cycle wasn’t so accurate. Except...

Thu, 16 Aug 2012 08:59:46 -0400

I just wish this cycle wasn’t so accurate. Except I’ve been stuck in the lonely part without ever feeling the actual love for as long as I been remember.
Its alright I’ll keep it pushing; won’t stop long enough to let it effect me.

New life starts in 5. 4. 3. 2…

Laying around trying not to cook more than needed. So I’m...

Tue, 10 Jul 2012 19:32:00 -0400

Laying around trying not to cook more than needed. So I’m hungry oh well wait till the oven that we call outside cools down. Maybe I’ll go to the store. Till then this its what I’ll look like.

I luv this guy. Neyo. Hottest joint out so far. @Neyocompound.

Sat, 23 Jun 2012 13:39:58 -0400

I luv this guy. Neyo. Hottest joint out so far. @Neyocompound.

Touch

Sat, 16 Jun 2012 19:55:19 -0400

We take for granted what it can do.

A savage beast can be soothed by a simple gentle touch.

A thousand words and be said with the slightest touch.

Each emotion can be conveyed with just a touch.

Anger or rage through a slap of the hand.

Happiness or sincere appreciation through a hand shake.

Love and affection when brushing against someone or tenderly touching them.

Consolations for the grieving of lost loved ones can be read with the slightest touch.

Our everyday life involves some form of touch.

Imagine what the world would be like without touch.

Don’t take this very simple and very easy gesture for granted.

We learn from infancy that touch is a way to bond.

Skin to skin when a baby is born is very important to the development of a child.

Breast feeding is another form of touch.

A hug after time apart is to re-instill the fact that yes I’m here and I care for you.

Touch can also offer security.

The protective embrace of a parent, lover or friend.

Even animals know that touch is necessary to survive.

You will never see a lone animal in the wild for too long.

Instinct tells it to find a partner.

Our wonderful creator blessed us with one of the greatest abilities.

Don’t become so afraid of other people and be lost in the problems of a twisted society that you forget change can be made with a reassuring touch to change.

Touch.

Hiding the TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!!

Sat, 16 Jun 2012 16:45:47 -0400

So I was doing some research for a book that I’m writing and I decided to look up some pictures to work alongside my story line. Give some real faces or merged faces to the characters.

I first searched for Puerto Rican women then Asian women. Success so far. Then I searched for Voluptuous Caribbean women and what I got was a skinny woman who wanted extra padding. When I searched for curvy women (we all know what a “real curvy” woman looks like) no affense to Rihanna but you are a woman yes but curves no.

What has it come to that you can’t show a real voluptuous or curvy woman. We may never ever see a size 4 unless it has a one in front but I would still like to actually be classified as what I am. Don’t hide me!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I feel “FREEEEEEEEEEE” and...

Wed, 30 May 2012 00:44:40 -0400

I feel “FREEEEEEEEEEE” and “AMAZZZZZZIIINNNNGGGG.” No really I just feel good. Let my hair out, got my face glowing. I’m moving things around in my life to satisfy not you, not him, not even my own family. No I’m doing it to satisfy me and only me. Don’t like it oh well. Say something this is the look I’ll give you. LoL

AAAWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!! It feels good to laugh.

Smooches

This is a message to all my ex’s or friends with partial...

Mon, 28 May 2012 23:20:27 -0400

This is a message to all my ex’s or friends with partial benefits I will write of you only this once. You don’t deserve anymore than that. I’ll start with the most recent:

D.Johnson -you supplied me with the rejuvenating ability and sense of self. You helped me realize I’m doing quite well without a man. Since you can’t commit, don’t for the next girls sake please be upfront with her. You can’t let go of your past. That in itself will hinder you from progressing in life period.

L. Solomon- Though we’ve known of each other for a short time. I believe our meeting was our downfall. Distance for use was better. You consume your time with work and can’t keep your lies straight.

M. Ramos- You like most men who don’t know what they want but don’t want to keep there hands out of the cookie jar. Appearing, disappearing without a trace and reappearing every six months out of the blue is not acceptable. Choose what you want then follow through.

D. Brown- You where and will always stay in the category of a one-night stand. Your ex-girlfriend made sure of that. Letting your girlfriend tell me that your choose someone else is not acceptable. Be a man and make the decision.

Manny- You are one of the slickest, smoothest talking guys i’ve met so far. I’m pretty sure there will be more. However your baby momma’s, and children will always keep your plate loaded. So will whatever you did in your past. If you can’t move forward then you are still longing for the past. I can’t be in a future with someone looking longingly to the past.

So for those mentioned this is your one and only shout out. For those that were not. This is also your shout out. I’m done dwelling on the past. Time for me to seek out the future that is bright and plentiful for ME. If you would like to be in it. Things have changed so the so-called standards of accepting anything, those days are over. You don’t have yourself together spiritually, emotionally, physically and financially (in that order, the first to mandatory) then keep walking.

I have enough friends. I’m not needing emotion dead weight hanging around. Soooo GOOD BYE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey Ladies and Gentleman, Yes I’m back. It’s been a...

Fri, 25 May 2012 20:01:00 -0400

Hey Ladies and Gentleman, Yes I’m back. It’s been a minute but I’ve been going through a lot. I thought I’d supressed my past out of existance but it came back to with a vengeance and bite me. So this is what happen: My best friend and I drifted apart and I had a sort of downward spiral. I didn’t realize how much he had meant to me. He filled such a void within me that when he withdrew I felt an overwhelming since of lose. Having never felt this way I didn’t know what to do. That’s when my past attacked me.

Im better now. Did some soul searching and even though I still have this vast void within my heart and life, I’ve come to realize that life goes on.

Thinking like a man- Ha!!!

Tue, 01 May 2012 00:28:00 -0400

Soooo. Thinking about my friend today. I reached out to try and chat with him. Problem with this was you actually need a response and he didn’t. My stress levels dealing with him is rising and my patience’s is waining.

There are other gentlemen available to chat with and they give me some attention. However I don’t know if its the fact that him ignoring me makes me want him more, or that fact that I was gullible enough to believe he was my best friend.

Whatever the pulling attraction, when will my breaking point be?

Its been a minute but i’m back. For the next couple of...

Sat, 28 Apr 2012 23:31:00 -0400

Its been a minute but i’m back. For the next couple of days I’ll be writing about my best friend and our relationship. Inspired by the movie “Act like a lady Think like a Man”. I’ll tell my side since that’s the only side I know. Hopefully through this process i’ll be able to determine what my next step should be for either me or us.

siegejoi: Girlfriend rule #2.9068: Support your friend even if...

Thu, 12 Apr 2012 12:51:29 -0400

siegejoi:

Girlfriend rule #2.9068: Support your friend even if her choice is totally against everything you’ve ever encouraged her to do.

Why? Because it’s not about you. It’s her life so ultimately she gets to direct it. So as a spectator you stop with all the sighing and genuinely stand next to your friend as you wish nothing but the best for her.

I luv you for saying what I couldn’t ty